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If you want to inspire your son to dance, take him to see other men dance. In particular, take him to see really great men dancing like real men.

We drove two and a half hours on Friday night to see Rasta Thomas’ Bad Boys of Dance perform in Santa Rosa, CA. We ‘ve been waiting for this chance for a long time, and it was well worth five hours in the car for the performance itself, the chance to meet him (yes, we did) and for the inspiration it provided for Julian. Seeing Rasta, one of the most fabulous male dancers I’ve seen–not just for his ballet technique but all around, dance on that stage, and the other young men perform made Julian want to go home and work all the harder at his dancing. It also made him want to overcome his biggest weakness: lack of flexibility. He’s been doing extra stretching ever since!

This show really is phenomenal. If you live in New York, you can catch the “boys” at the Joyce Theater, a great venue, for three weeks in December. It’s filled with great dancing, humor and lots of testosterone. If you want to see guys doing guys stuff on the dance floor, this show is the one to see. (Actually, Julian said, “They’re doing all the stuff I never get to do.” Sad, but true.)

A little estrogen is throw in as well, as Rasta’s wife, Adrienne Canterna-Thomas dances with the boys and actually choreographed all but one number…a very funny piece where the boys partner with blow-up dolls. (Makes lifts very easy!) It’s amazing how she choreographs for the men and makes them dance like men. We spoke about it, and she said she also has them dress like men–mostly in jeans with no shirts! (Their last encore was the song “I’m Too Sexy for My Shirt…”)

On a serious note, it really is important to show our dancing boys great male dancers in an up-close and personal setting. Julian not only got to watch these great dancers (from the second row), he got to meet them. In fact, we met two of the boys in New York this summer at the NYCDA nationals. They are only a few years older than he is… He shook hands with Rasta, got to talk with  Kameron Bink, who was a SYTYCD top-10 finalist and also spoke with Rasta’s wife. It’s so important for boys to feel they are surrounded by other male dancers who are actually successful as professional dancers–who can be role models for them. That’s what Rasta is for Julian–a great and inspirational role mode. The other “boys” are, too, but he really aspires to dance like Rasta (and to one day be one of the “boys”).

By the way, these male dancers all had great technique–not surprisingly. Of course, Rasta studied at the Kirov Academy and made dance competition history with honors including the Special Jury Prize for the 1994 Paris International Dance Competition, the Gold Medal in the Junior Men’s Division from the 1996 Varna International Ballet Competition, and the Gold Medal in the Senior Men’s Division from the Jackson, MS USA-IBC. He has danced with the Le Jeune Ballet de France, the Hartford Ballet, and the Dance Theatre of Harlem, as well as being the first American to become a member of the Kirov Ballet in Russia. That said, I enjoyed watching all of their feet and ballet moves, which were beautifully done.

It’s worth mentioning that Adrienne shows off almost flawless (at least to my untrained eye) technique as well. She’s an utterly gorgeous dancer. While at first I found having a woman on stage a bit distracting, as my husband said, “Sometimes you need that estrogen to get the testosterone going.” She did add to the “story, and I’m sure she inspired many of the girls in the audience, and she was lovely to watch. Plus, the fact that she and her husband have made a life for themselves together on the road performing is inspiring as well. I know they have a child — a daughter, I think, and it’s nice for the (straight) boys to see that a dancing husband and wife can create a life and make a living performing together.

For a peak at the show, take a look at these videos:

A four-minute trailer (not to the correct music–The first half of the show is danced to Black Eyed Peas, Maria Callas, Lenny Kravitz, Dave Mathews Band, Journey, Coldplay Jacques Brel, and U2; the second half of the show is set exclusively to music by Queen, Prince and Michael Jackson.)

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Imagine this one with the correct music by Queen, Prince and Michael Jackson…

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Julian began school on Monday. This year he’s a sophomore. He seems to have a new attitude (Thank God!) about school, schoolwork and grades. In fact, one of his best friends and a fellow dancer told me yesterday that Julian is “a different person.” It seems he was angry at her for talking on the phone rather than doing homework. Last year, I guess he didn’t have a problem with that (which would explain his terrible grades). While she spoke on the phone, he put in his Ipod earphones so he couldn’t hear her her and worked. Yahoo!

Maybe the trip to New York University, which is where he says he wants to go to college (if he isn’t recruited by Rasta Thomas first — his dream job at the moment) actually did the trick. I kind of hoped that if he got excited about a program and saw what it was going to take to get into a good school he’d get his act together. I do have to say, however, that his sister did have terrible grades as a freshman as well and then did really well after that. They both probably should have been held back before starting school since they were summer babies, but…too late now. Anyway, I hope Julian’s new attitude continues.

He appears to have a new attitude and work ethic at dance as well–left over from American Ballet Theatre and Broadway Dance Center. Dance at Teen Dance Company, however, doesn’t officially start until after Labor Day. That said, Julian has been dancing just about every day. He had choreography sessions most of last week and last weekend. He has also attended all the ballet and contemporary drop in classes offered at TDC. Additionally, he went to a ballet class at Los Gatos Ballet yesterday and tonight he is back at Studio 10 for jazz.  He’s trying to stay in shape, plus he simply wants to dance.

We received an evaluation form from ABT, much to our surprise. Julian got mostly “very good” and “good” grades. (The only thing better would be an “excellent.”) He was impressed with the fact that they thought his adagio was “very good.” I thought it was funny that all his “excellent” marks were in the areas of “presentation” and “class etiquette and presentation.” Well, he does like to look good, but you can’t say, “It’s better to look good than to dance well,” when it comes to ballet. (That was supposed to be a play on, “It’s better to look good than to feel good.” If you have to explain the pun, I guess it doesn’t really work.) These areas included dress, grooming, attitude, motivation, effort, progress, attendance, and dress code.  Actually, I’m proud he scored so well in these areas, and overall, he didn’t get one “satisfactory” or “needs improvement,” so I was a proud dancer’s mom. And Julian felt pretty good about himself as well. I think he was particularly happy that in the comment’s box it said, “Good partnering skills, and that is important for a boy.” (He felt that was the most important thing he learned this summer.

So, now to put everything he learned to use this year — including that new work ethic and attitude — both in school and in the studio. I hope he manages to be successful in both places. That would avoid so many fights and issues. And it would make him feel great.

In the meantime, we are grappling (already and it isn’t even September) with which Nutcracker to do. I think I already mentioned that. We still haven’t decided. The professional one seems enticing, but with no choreography set and a “child” role, there’s no telling what Julian will be doing. Plus, it requires all that driving to San Francisco and giving up social time on Fridays (no football games and dances for Julian — and no Shabbat services for me). The other production, which Julian was in last year, offers him the chance to be the Nutcracker prince. The choreographer said she’ll give him solos and lots of dancing and partnering work…but that will all have to be set on him as well. It’s not been done that way before. Yet, it’s local and she works around his schedule. (No Friday rehearsals…whoo hoo!) It could be a mute point, though, if any of the tech rehearsal dates conflict with TDC 2nd Stage tech rehearsals in December. So…it’s all up in the air.

With that said, I’ll leave you all to ponder for me the pros and cons and possibilities. I have to go off and search out more photos of Julian dancing. We wrote dueling columns for an upcoming issue of Movmnt magazine (the issue is focused on the topic of  ”family”), and they needed photos of him dancing. I didn’t really have any good ones. (Bad mom, I know.) So, I’ve had to search some out. While extremely time consuming, I must say I came up with quite a few from both TDC’s 2nd Stage and Concert performances last year, Los Gatos Ballet’s Copellia production, and even ABT’s final summer intensive performance. (Now I also have to buy some!)

Hopefully, next week I’ll have time to post what will probably be just the first in a series of blogs based on my conversation with Denise Wall, mother of choreographer Travis Wall and dancer Danny Tidwell.  (That’s if I can get away from the photo search and column writing for Movmnt, and other miscellaneous projects, to get caught up on my editing work.)

OMG! We have less than a week and a half less until the American Ballet  Theatre’s summer intensive ends! Hard to believe…Julian is still having a blast, but I’m a bit homesick at this point, stressed about work and wishing we weren’t staying for an extra week. We are just doing way too much.

At ABT, Julian’s choreography classes are finishing up their numbers and preparing for the show. They have a rehearsal next Wednesday. Other than that, everything is the same as usual…and he still loves the partnering classes the most. He  learns more in those than in any other classes. Probably the biggest disappointment (other than the ballet performance piece) lies in the fact that the boys class doesn’t do a whole lot of “boy’s stuff.” It’s mostly technique and it totally depends on who teaches as to whether or not they do jumps or turns or the like.

In any case, he has learned a ton and improved. He has also made friends and had fun. His body is no longer sore, nor does his heel hurt. And he hasn’t gotten dehydrated again.

He took two tap classes at Broadway Dance Center with his old tap teacher from California and former Tap Dog Anthony LoCascio. You can see them tapping together here:

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He’s also been back to tap with Michelle  Dorrance, which he just loves despite the difficulty of the class, and last weekend he tapped with Avi Miller and Ofer Ben after buying a new pair of their Miller and Ben tap shoes. (He didn’t wear them to class, however, because I didn’t want him to get blisters!)

This weekend he has a tap lesson with Jason Samuels Smith! Whoo hoo! That’s an opportunity you don’t get every day. I wrote an article about one of his projects and interviewed him for my book on mentoring boys who want to be professional dancers…so…I had an in.

I went to NYCDA’s national convention to meet with Denise Wall, mom of Travis Wall and Danny Tidwell. I interviewed her for a blog post (that will show up here after we get home). I then went back with Julian, and we watched her company perform several of pieces choreographed by Travis and by Jason Parsons. Julian was quite inspired by the choreography.

We met four of her sons, including Danny Tidwell. We also met Jamie Goodwin, who is dancing with Rasta Thomas’ Bad Boys of Dance…yes, they have one number with two girls. He also got to talk with two guys in Rasta’s company — nice young guys (18 and 19), who were thrilled to have the opportunity to dance with Rasta. Julian would be, too, but he said he wasn’t sure he’d be thrilled about giving up college to do so; one of the boys had completed just one semester when Rasta asked him to join. He plans on going back in 6-12 months. Last, but not least, we got to briefly meet and talk to choreographer Sonya, whose work can be seen on So You Think You Can Dance. That was a thrill as well.

Julian is supposed to have a private lesson with Denise Wall the last week we are in New York. We are really looking forward to that as well, and I hope it pans out.

And last night we saw West Side Story, our last big Broadway dance event. It was a bit of a let down. The acting wasn’t great; it lacked the passion of the movie and too much of it was in Spanish, leaving us non-Spanish speakers in the dark about what was being said. A little bit of the dance lacked spark, too, but overall the dancing was very good. We enjoyed Cody Green, however, who I’ve had my eye on for my book, and I was able to ask him to participate! He agreed, so I’ll be following with him later on.

My daughter comes in tonight to explore NYU, and then my sister arrives. I’ll try to get at least one post in before the end of the intensive, but no promises. I’m trying to work, too…and that has to come first at this point. Sorry.

During my conversation with Rasta Thomas about how boys can prepare for a summer dance ballet intensive, which I wrote about in my last post, he also offered some pretty savvy advice for how our young men should conduct themselves once they actually find themselves on site and ready to begin the intensive itself. Here are a few questions I asked him on this topic and his candid replies:

 

Once these boys arrive at the summer intensive, what advice would you offer to them?

At that point, it comes down to ability. A lot of times schools use these intensives to cast their auditions for their year-round programs. So, you need to go there with something to prove not to anyone else but to yourself. You want to prove that you gave it your best shot, and you are going to allow for the opportunity to sign you if that is meant to be.

 

What do you mean by that? How does a young man “allow for the opportunity to be signed” for a year-round program like, for example, American Ballet Theatre’s school?

You need to put your best foot forward every day. Every day is an audition not for someone else but for you. Every day, every class, requires an intensive burst of energy. You have to push like a horse running out of the starting gate from the minute you wake up.

I remember I used to eat my eat my cereal in a split, do my homework in a split. I used to have sandbags at the bar to hold down my feet, I used to have friends push down my knees. Some of the best exercises are partnering exercises, so it’s great to find a good partner.

 

It can be tough for the boys to make friends, especially in a really competitive ballet intensive program. Do you have advice for the kids when it comes to who they befriend during a summer program?

Finding a group of kids that are there with the same principles—to work hard—is better than finding the kids that are just there to have fun.

 

What are your final thoughts on how young male dancers can get the most out of a summer ballet intensive?

Depending upon how serious you are, it comes down to preparation, what you want to get out of the program, and allowing yourself to be in the best shape to simply benefit the most while you are at the intensive.

Training and pushups and sit ups and cardio and lines and pirouettes and jumps and turns…These are things you work on for rest of life as a dancer. But a summer intensive allows you a focus point in a fixed amount of time to push. It’s almost like a competition or like working for a recital or like pushing your hardest to get a role or to dance with the best girl in class or just to dance with any girl in the class to get partnering experience.

Live in the studio even if class is over and nothing is going on in the studio. Bring your iPod. Bring other dancers. Make this a nonstop, 24-hour, until-you-pass-out working environment for yourself. If you can do that, you’ll benefit greatly.

At long, long last, I have some really superb advice for all the boys attending summer ballet intensives. Actually, any boy attending any type of summer dance intensive will benefit from the advice offered by ballet great Rasta Thomas.  

I first “discovered” Rasta after I’d actually seen him perform as Eddie in the national tour of  the Twyla Tharp/Bill Joel hit musical Movin Out. I was interviewing Dennis Nahat, artistic director of Ballet San Jose, for my book on mentoring boys who want to become professional dancers, and he suggested I also interview Rasta. He mentioned that while Rasta had not taken his advice and joined a ballet company, he was doing a pretty good job of making a living as a “free agent.” Indeed, he has and still is doing just that. And while he’s gotten more than his share of accolades as a ballet dancer, he does way more than ballet these day–and he encourages other male dancers to do the same. You can see this in the repertoire of his company,  ”Bad Boys of Dance.”

Though a Californian by birth, Rasta spent his early years in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. Trained at the Kirov Academy in Washington DC, under Oleg Vinogradov, Rasta made dance history as the youngest recipient of the Jury Prize at the Paris International Ballet Competition in Washington DC, the Junior Gold Medal at Varna at fifteen and the coveted Senior Gold Medal at the Jackson International Ballet Competition when he was only sixteen.

Appearing as a guest artist with the most prestigious ballet companies throughout the world, Rasta has appeared with the Kirov Ballet in Russia, The Joffrey Ballet in Chicago, the K–Ballet in Japan, Lar Lubovitch, Complexions and American Ballet Theater in New York, Universal Ballet of Korea, Alonzo King’s Lines Contemporary Ballet in San Francisco, and the Beijing Central Ballet in China to name a few.

In 2007 Rasta debuted his own company, Bad Boys of Dance, at Jacob’s Pillow. This dazzling, high energy, all male company combines the best of ballet, Broadway, Tango, and Hip Hop to showcase male virtuosity at its best.  You can read  more about Rasta here.

If anyone knows what boys go through as they make there way in the world as dancers, Rasta does. And if anyone can given them advice about a ballet intensive, Rasta can. So, let’s hear what he has to say.  (I’ve left his comments in a simple Q & A format, so you can really “hear” Rasta speak.)

What is the first thing you would suggest boys do to prepare for a summer intensive, such as those run by American Ballet Theatre or San Francisco Ballet?

They can prepare themselves mentally. The first step is to approach anything new with an open mind. You are going there to learn, and you are going there to be challenged.

If you are willing to spend your “summer vacation” at a ballet intensive, and this isn’t something against your will, you are already far ahead of pack. That shows your determination and your love of what you do in a profession that is quite painful. It shows that you want to prevail and use your body in a way that thrives and lives in you. So, I think the mindset you are in is already appropriate, because you are agreeing to do this summer program and you want to do this summer program.

Beyond that, the next step is to figure out what you are hoping to get out of the summer ballet program. It will be what you predestine the experience to be. If you go there to learn, if you go there to be competitive, that’s what it will be

Also, if you go there looking for insight into your future, you can get a first hand experience of what the next step may be. This will allow you to find early in life what that yellow brick road is for you. That can be very educational. Everyone at the summer program is just a student, but the next step is an apprenticeship and then core and then soloist and then principle.

A summer program allows for an amazing amount of information to be downloaded if you’re open to it. If you go there being shy and bashful, or whatever your inhibitions are, you’ll need to abandon those. You need to say, “I’m here to learn.” Don’t judge yourself. Don’t think you are not good enough even if there is someone better than you. Think, “I’m going learn. I’m here because my parents sacrificed for me, my teachers sacrificed for me, and I sacrificed for myself. This is where I’m supposed to be. If you go into it with the mentality of “I’m going to benefit from this the most I can every single day, and you live, sleep and eat ballet, you will get tenfold more than other people will.

So, that’s the first step: mental preparation.

 

What’s the second step?

Before they go, they must get in the best physical shape they can. Whatever their syllabus or regular routine is, just push it even more. Take twice as many classes. Stretch a little longer.

A lot of times, dance classes don’t prepare you for dance itself. Class is more strength and conditioning training then stretching. I always say, ‘In dance you have to stretch your potential in addition to strengthening your potential.’ There’s a lot that can be done outside the studio. For this reason, I would say stretching, stretching and stretching are the keys. And if you’re flexible already, then spend time strengthening, strengthening and strengthening. If you are somewhere in the middle, then focus on both flexibility and strengthening before you go to the summer program.

Focus on your feet and your legs as well as on the other parts of your body. Know what your weaknesses are as well as your strengths, and specifically practice what you are bad at in preparation for the summer program.

 

Are there specific things that the boys can do in addition to taking class to get in great shape for a summer ballet intensive, such as cross training?

Cross training is a given. Dancers in general need to cross train. The boys have good weather on their side right now, so swimming is a great activity. Tennis and basketball are good. Even jumping rope is good. Jumping rope for 10 minutes a day will do wonders. Practicing variations is good, too. Strengthening, stretching (or flexibility), cardio, and repetition (of whatever the step is, such as a pas de bourrée, passé, or pirouette)—these are the four fundamental things they need to be doing. In terms of repetition, they need to do every step 10,000 hours each. To become good at anything you have to put in 10,000 hours—not consecutively, of course.

 

Since their dance programs might have tapered off by this time of year, which means they might not actually have access to as many dance classes just prior to going to their summer ballet intensive, what else do you suggest boys do to get in shape?

[Rudolf] Nureyev used to take ballet class at the back of the airplane. All you need is a little ledge to hold onto. You don’t even need a perfect surface. Don’t do anything that is going to make you hurt yourself, of course. There is always something you can practice. Do the exercises of the dance syllabus outside of class even if it is just moving your arms and your head. You don’t have to be in a structured class with a teacher giving you exercises. That’s the reason you had ballet class for the whole year—so you can do it without the teacher. You are your best teacher. Pull those things out of classes that you want to improve on, and do them in the living room in front of the mirror. Do relevé at the grocery store in line.

Class may have tapered off, but there are many hours in the day to be used—maybe not to take class but to improve your instrument.


Will boys do more jumping, turning, partnering at a summer intensive?

Definitely.

 

Is there anything they should be doing to prepare for those moves and activities  in particular?

For partnering, it’s always about lifting, so they should be doing push ups, sit ups, handstand push ups, pull ups, leg squats, and any resistance exercises, such as using dumbbells for their biceps and triceps.

For turns and spins, it’s just repetition.

For jumps, you need every muscle in your legs to be strong to jump as high as you can. So, exercise all the different muscles.

 

Are there some particular exercises you would recommend?

You can break down every point of the body and do exercises for strength and flexibility. For the feet and legs in particular, here are a few.

To strengthen the ankle, lie on your back and do 30 circles with your ankle clockwise and counterclockwise. Put your thigh at 90 degrees perpendicular to floor and your shin and foot parallel to floor. Hold knee in place and turn your ankle 30 times in each direction and then move it 30 times like gas pedal up and down.

Stand up and do sets of 16 or 32 relevé and eleve to work your calves. And the same with leg squats. Do this every day and build up to 50. It should hurt every other day. There should be a little soreness and then a little recuperation. Scientifically, you have to damage and injure your muscle for it to grow. If you aren’t sore the next day, you didn’t push hard enough.

Picking up pencil with your toes strengthens the toes [and actually most of the foot]. Use a Coke bottle or Perrier bottle and flex your foot and point your toes, and then roll your toes over and back over the bottle.  Keep the toes pointed the whole time, but flex the ankle. That works the arch.

Sit with your feet under the couch to stretch your feet.

Do your splits every day—two minutes a day in each split. If you can do them already, put a phone book or couch under your front leg.

If you don’t have your splits, take a warm or hot bath. When you get out, put on two pairs of sweats, sock and a hoodie, and stretch while the muscles are warm. Massage as you stretch.  You can also get up against a wall and in a side split straddle. I also used to lie on my back like a frog and put my legs in a double passé position.

 

Not surprisingly, there’s more to this interview than what I’ve posted here. So, keep a look out for Part 2 coming soon, in which Rasta  will advise boys on what they should be doing once they actually arrive at the summer ballet intensive.

Yes…after much ado and a lot of requests, today Rasta Thomas called me and gave me a 30-minute interview on the subject of how boys can prepare for a summer ballet intensive. I had written to him several weeks ago, but he hadn’t yet responded; he and I have spoken before, because I interviewed him for the book I’m writing on how to mentor boys who want to become professional dancers. Seems he was on the phone with Debbie Allen today, and she told him to call me! I had sent a pleading email to her on Monday asking if one of her ballet teachers would write the post for me. I guess no one says no to “Mamma D,” as he called her. So, I got the interview. Thanks Debbie and Rasta!

I’ve got a deadline to meet by tomorrow afternoon, but I’ll try to get the tape transcribed by tomorrow night at the latest and post the interview. It should be great!

If you don’t know who Rasta Thomas is, you should! He’s got a superb company called “Bad Boys of Dance” and he’s an internationally acclaimed and award winning ballet dancer. However, he does way more than ballet these days.  A most accomplished classical and contemporary dancer, martial artist, gymnast and director, Rasta is an undeniably watchable, cutting edge performer who continues to push his artistry in new directions. Jennifer Dunning of the New York Times has said, “Look out world, Rasta Thomas has arrived!” and Alexander Dube, formerly of Hurok Concerts, has said that “Rasta Thomas is one of the most gifted and versatile artists of his generation.” Julian and I saw him perform as Eddie in the national tour of  the Twyla Tharp/Bill Joel hit musical Movin Out.  

If that’s not enough, Rasta will do anything to help foster boys in dance. So, hopefully this upcoming interview with him won’t be the only one you find here. Until then….your can read  more on Rasta here.

I’ve got a son who dances. 13-year-old Julian dances six or seven days a week. He spends most of his time doing ballet, because he knows it will make him a great dancer in terms of technique. He has a scholarship at Ballet San Jose. He also does jazz and hip hop at a Studio 10 in the San Jose area, where he is taught by Keith Banks, who also taught So You Think You Can Dance first-season-winner Nick Lazarinni for a while. And he takes tap lessons with former ballet dancer and now world-renown hoofer Sam Weber. When he can, he does some break dancing with ReMinD, but he’s moved away, so that doesn’t happen often anymore. Julian, who started dancing when he was three years old, wants to be an all-around dancer and possibly to hit Broadway, since he also loves acting.

At the moment, however, he isn’t doing any dancing at all. For the second time this year, he’s laid up. This time, he’s actually got his left foot in a “boot” to keep the ankle immobilized. He has hurt the growth plate on the side of his foot where a tendon that runs down the ankle attaches. (I could get into the biology of it, but I’ll keep it simple.) That tendon is used for turning and jumping, all the things a dancer does, especially a young male dancer. In fact, he hurt it having turning competitions with a female dancer. Too many turns and the next morning he was having trouble walking. A trip to the podiatrist for x-rays, and we were told it was tendinitis at the point where the tendon joins to the bone. A trip to the sports specialist with x-rays in hand, and we were told it was actually an injury to the growth plate itself. Into the boot. No dancing for 2 weeks. Yesterday, the sports specialist said the boot has to stay on for another two weeks. Not great news when you’ve got a recital in June and a ballet school ballet and showcase in mid May.

Earlier this year, Julian was taking a jazz class at another studio in south San Jose, NorCal Performing Arts, and dislocated a toe. He was wearing those little pads on his feet that are popular with lyrical dancers. He’d used them for a lyrical number he’d performed in competition the year before. He rolled his foot a little too far over and caught the pinkie toe… Since he’s a regular at the chiropractor’s office, he actually adjusted the toe back into place himself. (Ouch!)He ended up with a hairline fracture and couldn’t dance for two weeks and couldn’t jump or turn for about four weeks or more.

I’m beginning to wonder what can be done to help our sons’ feet stay healthy and strong. If anyone out there has any suggestions, I’d love to hear them. In the meantime, Julian is stretching, picking up pencils with his toes, and waiting to be told he can start physical therapy with a former dancer who works with other dancers using Pilate’s. She’ll show Julian what he can do to strengthen his feet and legs, and hopefully he can go home or to the dance studio and do this with bands and such on his own.

The problem, of course, is trying to get a 13-year-old who spend so many hours in the dance studio — when he isn’t laid up — to do any type of stretching or exercising once he gets home. By then, he doesn’t want to do anything at all. Which isn’t to say that he doesn’t dance around the kitchen or tap his way to the television set!

And he’s frustrated by going to class at this point to stretch, do a little strengthening and simply watch. He cried, (Yes, cried…) the other night when he told me, “Mom, I hate just watching. I don’t want to just sit there and watch.” Yet, his ballet teachers want him there watching, and he needs to watch his jazz class and his ballet rehearsals so he can mark his dances.

Ah, the times dancers are hurt are, I believe the hardest on them. I know, when I interviewed Benji Schwimmer, he told me that, indeed, this is true. Next blog, maybe I’ll offer his suggestions on how to cope with being laid up.

Back to why I wanted to start this blog: I am a journalist and an author, and I’m working on a book about mentoring boys who want to be professional dancers. So, I’m hoping to make this blog not only about the escapades of my son and his dancing feet but about how to help young boys make it in the world of dance. They may get all the accolades once they are on stage — and sometimes in class, too — but it’s a tough road to hoe when you’re the only boy in a class full of girls and you’re teased at school by the other boys (and sometimes the girls, too) and you always feel different for choosing dance over sports. There are more issues, such as those that realte to sexuality, finding good role models, having friends who can relate to you, learning to dance like a guy, being stereotyped, and locating dance clothes suitable for boys, but suffice it to say, from about the age of 8 until they are 15 or 16, boys need a lot of support if they are going to not give in to peer pressure and their own personal issues and give up on their dreams of being professional dancers. So, helping them succeed in the world of dance is important, and I’d like to help not only my son but other boys as well. That’s what this blog is about — helping boys who want to become professional dancers achieve their goal and helping the parents of boys who want to become professional dancers help their sons realize their dreams.

In the process of researching my book, I’ve already interviewed such notable male professional dancers, choreographers and artistic directors as Jason Samuels Smith, Sam Weber, Dennis Nahat, and Benji Schwimmer. Next on my list is Rasta Thomas. There will be at least five or 10 more great dancers included in the book before I’m done. (If you know any great agents or publishers who might want to help me get this book out, drop me a note! If you have suggestions for really superb, young professional male dancers I should consider interviewing, send those along as well.) While I can’t share all the information I glean from the interviews here, I’ll be dropping little pearls of wisdom they share with me and telling you a bit about the experience of interviewing these dance greats. I’ll also try to share good web sites and other helpful resources. There aren’t many places on the Internet to go for information on boys in dance, so hopefully this will be it. And soon Julian and I will be creating a web site to go with this blog, so look for that (hopefully before year end).

Until next posting, keep those boys dancing! (And don’t step on their feet. They’ve got enough problems with their tootsies without anyone making it any worse.)